Judgement and Desire Cannot Live In The Same Space

April_post2What is your relationship with what you desire?  Are you in a state of joyful expectancy and fulfillment?

If you’re not enjoying your desires, it’s usually because you have some kind of judgement on them. 

Here are some of the judgements I’m familiar with:

• It’s not OK for me to want that.

• That’s too expensive.

• I’ll never be able to…..

• It’ll take me forever to get that done!

• I don’t deserve it.

If any of these judgments come up for you when you ponder your desires, you need to become more like a little child.  A baby doesn’t spin into mental judgments when she wants something.  She just wants it!  She allows herself to have the feeling of DESIRE! 

Have you ever watched a baby determined to master a new skill?  Maybe she wanted to sit, to crawl, to walk, or to pull herself up to the window so she can look out at the world. 

Her DESIRE is the very energy that fueled her action!

In how many ways can you be more like that baby?  If you want a de-cluttered, organized home, are you willing to keep trying, to keep falling down and getting back up again?  Are you willing to ask for any support you need so that you can master the new skills that will give you your goal?

Would you like a Clean Sweep in your life?

Some professional organizers believe that if they can help you put everything “away,” they are doing a good job. But… “A place for everything and everything in it’s place” doesn’t make much sense if the items you’re putting away don’t really need to be kept, don’t really serve your future success.

A great professional organizer helps you to understand that organizing is about setting up your environment for success. Your success. Success with the goals you are working toward in your life right now.

A great professional organizer will help you define what function you want each room in your home to serve for you. And then, a great professional organizer will help you create an empowering, sustainable relationship with your each of those spaces, a relationship that will serve your success.

  • Empowering, because when you’ve organized your rooms in a way that sets them up to function optimally for you, a way that helps you achieve your goals, you are empowered to BE and DO more!
  • Sustainable, because when we organize your rooms, using Sustainable Systems that align with your goals and your Unique Retrieval Strategy (how your brain remembers where you’ve put something), it’s EASY to maintain the order, and your sanity and vitality!

Your Home and Workspace are Your Success Partners
From my perspective, a great professional organizer needs to help you set up your environment to function as your Success Partner.

What is a Success Partner? You may not have heard the term before, but I’ll bet you can sense what a Success Partner is: someone who supports your goals, someone who brings all their gifts, skills, and abilities to the relationship—in an honest, transparent, vulnerable, willing-to-share way.

We’ve all had family members, teachers, bosses, or colleagues who’ve partnered with us and helped us achieve success. We wouldn’t be where we are in life today without the mentoring and support our Success Partners gave us.

The rooms we live and work in are partnering with us, whether we know it or not. Your space is alive and intelligent, whether you connect with it at this level or not. Your home is always offering you its gifts:

  • shelter
  • safety
  • structure
  • pattern
  • light
  • storage for stuff we need and want
  • horizontal spaces for rest, work and play
  • the possibility for pattern, textures, colors and furnishings that please us
  • a template within which we can create success

What if you believed that your home and workspace wanted to be your Success Partner? What if you considered that your rooms long to support your goals, to function optimally to serve your success?

Your environment is successful ONLY IF it is set up to serve YOUR success! Over the years, I’ve worked with many wonderful business and life coaches. They all say the same thing: if you want to create success in your business and your life, you have to get your environment functioning optimally and feeling wonderful.

How do I set up my Home and Workspace as Success Partners?
The best way I’ve found is to start with a Clean Sweep. Not the kind of Clean Sweep you might see on TV shows where everything in the house is hauled outside, and only some of it is put back by organizers, who create lovely systems that may or may not work for the family they are organizing. Many of those people end up having the clutter creep back into their lives because they don’t know how to create Sustainable Systems that align with their own Unique Retrieval Strategy.

The kind of Clean Sweep that can jump start a successful de-cluttering and re-organizing process has several components:

  • emotional: to clear the emotional reasons for the clutter
  • mental: to clear any limiting beliefs about being able to organize
  • physical: to learn strategies for the actual process of editing and organizing
  • spiritual: to relate to your space in empowering, sustainable ways

This kind of inner and outer Clean Sweep will help you

  • release any clutter
  • re-organize your home
  • rejuvenate your life

Because we’re coming out of winter and into spring, and I want each of you to be able to harness that “spring cleaning” energy, I’m offering a FREE training for you on Sunday March 9th (and YES, you can forward this email and invite your friends!) Click the image below to register.

I hope to see you there!

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